How to switch off Show Always for a CMFCPropertyGridCtrl (or change the colour)?

Question

I confess that I have also asked the same question on StackOverflow, but it has not had any responses.

• CListCtrl lets you switch off Show Always by using LVS_SHOWSELALWAYS.
• CTreeCtrl also lets you switch off Show Always by using TVS_SHOWSELALWAYS.

But I can't seem to find an equivalent for the CMFCPropertyGridCtrl. This is not an issue when I am using the default light theme:

As you can see, the selected property is left in a light grey when you tab to another control on the dialog. But, this is what it looks like for my dark theme:

Not good. So I hoping to either:

1. Switch off Show Always for the property grid control or
2. Change the colour it uses. What's frustrating is that in Visual Studio the property that was focused has a different colour:

That is what I would like to achieve. Possible?