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According to my test, I can enable the SSL/TLS in office2019 when I configure the Gmail.
I have checked the IMAP configuration from Gmail.
May I know how do you configure your account? What is the port of SMTP? You can check the port from your email provider.
Make sure your OS doesn't have an outdated TLS version, as later versions mean TLS 1.2 will be the default security protocol.
Besides, for the differences between SSL/TLS and STARTTLS, you can refer to this article: SSL vs. TLS vs. STARTTLS Encryption
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