Hi,
Azure Update Manager does not support patching third party apps. Can you specify where you got that statement from? Additionally I believe WSUS also cannot patch third party apps so your only option is SCCM. As you you have opened this question with Azure Update Manager tag if you have questions for WSUS or SCCM to open new ones with the corresponding tags.
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